This blog has nothing to do with strategy,
leadership, or teamwork. Then again,
maybe it does . . .
I moved to a new neighborhood a couple of years
ago. This changed my commute and took me
down a street with a crosswalk in the middle of a very long block. I wasn’t used to a crosswalk that was not
located at a street corner, so I did what everyone else did – I sped past the
crosswalk even though there were people standing there waiting to cross. I figured they would just cross when the
traffic died down.
Surely I would have stopped for Captain James T. Kirk |
Then one day, a guy gave me a particularly dirty
look as I drove past the crosswalk. I
mentioned this silly man to a friend when I got to work. “Well, Rob, that’s because it is a state law
in Maryland for cars to stop at crosswalks when people are waiting to
cross.” What!?!
Sure enough, I had been breaking the law.
But later that day, I had another insight. Not only was I breaking the law, I was being
a real jerk.
I was in such a hurry to get home or get to work
that I didn’t realize that these people were – essentially – being held hostage
by me and the other cars on the street.
I didn’t think about their situation – how they would have to wait quite
a while for the traffic to die down. And
with the current cold weather we are having that is no fun.
I am now a crosswalk convert. I hope people are waiting to cross so I can
stop and, thereby, encourage the other two lanes of traffic to stop as
well. I get many appreciative smiles and
waves from people, which is way more gratifying than getting home sixty seconds
earlier.
The bigger lesson for me is to remember to pay
real attention to what is going on with other people in my world. It is easy for me to get self-absorbed with
my goals and plans. I try to remind
myself to slow down and look around to notice, appreciate, and empathize.
I think this probably makes me a better
teammate. And it certainly makes me less
of a jerk.
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